No one is born with the same genes or symetrical. When people are created they resemble to the DNA of their parents. Everyone has their own unique body shape, size and structure. Beauty is also determined by the eyes of others. For some people beauty is money, and for the others it is body structure. For me beauty is good qualities. People usually forget to see the good qualities of others and end up  having the relationship the don't want to. People who say I am beautiful based on their structure have to understand that it is temporary. Body shape is something that comes and goes. The constructed image of beauty is something everyone has to ignore and It is affecting most relationship. I believe that in order for everyone to come together,  people have to believe in themselves that no one is greater than others, be confident with what they have, and believe in who they are. No one has to be judged because of body size and shape, in stead, to focus on the good qualities of human being. At the end of the day good qualities are the essentials that stands out.

Race play

Most of the time when a black man have a relationship with  a white woman, I think that they are together because of sexual relationship. I don't think that they have a true relationship out of bed room. This resonates me the person I know who always want to date white women. When I asked him why he wants to date a white woman,  he said that white women do not want to stick with you and  he want to take advantage of that. From the conversation in the podcast, his story reminded me how the race play is involved in his relationship with white women.  In either way their is a race play.They both know that they only call each other only for sex. the other thing what I assume is that  in the sexual relationship between black men and white women, the black men are in dominant role and the white women are in  submissive role.  When it comes to black women Vs white men, I believe that black women might have the assumption that they could have better relationship if they are with white men. I am not sure to say that who is on dominant or submissive role in the bed room, but it depends on who has the most sexual arousal. The most could be dominant and the least could be submissive.